Every time I’m angry, I prove sadly unaware of how odious my own faults are.
Seen these bumper stickers?
Recently, Pastor Sam sagaciously noted that if you are outraged, you’re not paying attention.
Something to think about.
Seen these bumper stickers?
Recently, Pastor Sam sagaciously noted that if you are outraged, you’re not paying attention.
Something to think about.
Should an inability to spell… mark a person as being uneducated? Or is the ability to spell a trivial accomplishment after all?
-Ronald Wardhaugh, Proper English, 13
It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out… where the doer of deeds could have done better.
If [you’re] annoyed that someone out there is reading a book [you] don’t like, then here’s a suggestion: Write a better book.
One’s intelligence can be so low that one is stupid, but one’s stupidity can never get high enough to make one intelligent.
-Edward Sapir, Quoted in Far from the Madding Gerund, 98
Properly, you analyze to enjoy, but it is equally true that to analyze with any discrimination, you have to have enjoyed already.
Flannery O’Connor, Mystery and Manners, 108
The problem with fitting in and being a cog in the machine is that cogs are intentionally designed to be easily replaceable.
D. H. Lawrence:
[Americans] are always busy “about” something. But truly immersed in doing something, with… deep blood-consciousness active…they never are.
[Asking an author] “What did you mean by this book?” is to invite bafflement: the book itself is what the writer means.
Dorothy Sayers, The Mind of the Maker, 45
Liberman on “correct grammar”:
Many people believe that stipulation of shared linguistic norms is essential to communication…. [T]his idea is transparent nonsense.
To revise and correct [yourself, and] to forsake an unjust argument in the…heat of dispute, are rare, great, and philosophical qualities.
Montaigne, “Of the Education of Children“
To complain that man measures God by his own experience is a waste of time; man measures everything by his own experience.
-Dorothy Sayers, The Mind of the Maker, 19
The compassion innate in having someone—however remote—verbalize your despair or lend a form to it can salve the jibbering psyche.
Mary Karr, Sinners Welcome, 74
On the way to a tryst, two hearts should be going pitter-patter with romantic desire and excitement … no thousand bucks changes hands.
Everywhere I go I’m asked if I think the universities stifle writers. My opinion is that they don’t stifle enough of them.
-Flannery O’Connor, Mystery and Manners, 84
When someone is suffering … asking him to be undeluded by momentary uplifting, however dubious its rationale, is asking an awful lot.
-Philip Roth, American Pastoral, 125