Elliot Page reveals his response to misgendering.
Elliot Page, the acclaimed actor and outspoken advocate for transgender rights, is no stranger to the challenges of being a public figure.
Since coming out as transgender in December 2020, Page has been candid about his journey, sharing personal experiences and offering advice to those navigating similar paths.
Recently, the Umbrella Academy star opened up about how he responds when people misgender him.
Page’s journey explained.
To truly grasp the significance of Page’s stance, it’s worth revisiting his journey over the past few years.
In December 2020, Page, formerly known as Ellen, came out as transgender in a powerful Instagram post.
“Hi friends, I want to share with you that I am trans, my pronouns are he/they, and my name is Elliot,” he wrote, marking a monumental moment in his life.
His announcement was met with widespread support, but also highlighted the challenges many transgender individuals face.
Page’s pride in his identity detailed.
“I love that I am trans. And I love that I am queer,” Page continued, affirming his identity with pride.
He also expressed empathy for the trans community, acknowledging the harassment, self-loathing, and violence many endure daily.
“To all the trans people who deal with harassment, self-loathing, abuse, and the threat of violence every day: I see you, I love you, and I will do everything I can to change this world for the better,” Page stated.
His words resonated deeply, positioning him as a vital advocate for trans rights and visibility.
Page’s current mission exposed.
Fast forward to today, and Page is continuing to use his platform to educate and inspire.
In his latest film, Close to You, Page plays Sam, a transgender man navigating his return home for the first time since his transition.
The film, directed by Dominic Savage, dives into the complex dynamics of family relationships and identity.
A telling scene explained.
In one scene, Sam corrects his mother, played by Wendy Crewson, when she misgenders him, a moment that mirrors many real-life experiences.
When asked if that scene was a genuine slip of the tongue, Page revealed it was, emphasizing the importance of context and intent in these situations.
“I wouldn’t correct Wendy as me,” Page explained, highlighting his nuanced approach. “I’d be like: ‘It’s fine. We’re going to move on from the moment. It takes a second.’”
This understanding extends to his personal life as well.
The issue of misgendering exposed.
Misgendering, or referring to someone using incorrect pronouns or gendered terms, is a common issue many trans people face, even from well-intentioned friends and family.
Page’s approach to these moments is refreshingly straightforward: he doesn’t dwell on it unless it’s meant to be hurtful.
Page’s admission exposed.
“I get misgendered all the time,” he admitted in a recent interview. “And I don’t care unless someone’s trying to be mean about it.”
This level-headed response underscores Page’s broader message of understanding and patience, both for himself and for others who might still be learning.
Page opens up.
Page shared that even his own mother, Martha Philpotts, sometimes slips up with his pronouns, but he remains unfazed.
“She’s pretty good. I’m like, ‘Of course, it’s going to take you a second, Mom. It’s fine. You don’t need to beat yourself up about it!’” Page said.
His response showcases a blend of empathy and patience, recognizing that everyone is on their own journey of understanding and acceptance.
Page’s attitude is a powerful reminder that mistakes are part of the learning process, especially when it comes to gender and identity.
He has repeatedly stressed the importance of intent, urging people to focus on moving forward rather than dwelling on errors.
“When someone does go to apologize, it’s great,” he told Variety. “But let’s move on to the next moment in our interaction.”
He cautions against turning these moments into bigger issues than they need to be, which can shift the focus away from the person being misgendered.
“Let’s move on before it turns into a bigger thing and becomes about the person who did the misgendering and turns into this whole other energy,” he elaborated.
For Page, it’s all about moving forward and staying focused on what truly matters: love, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for equality.
Elliot Page is not just telling his story—he’s helping to write a new chapter for all.