With social media being as influential as it is in our lives, it's hard to get away from the "perfect" standards that it sets for an insecure society. We seem to be wired to take everything we see at face value, without thinking about it rationally. Skin physically can't look that smooth. Hair cannot be that shiny. And bodies should not be able to bend in that manner.
It's all edited.
Recently, singing sensation, Demi Lovato, gave us a taste of just how toxic editing pictures can be for your own self-esteem, as well as highlighting the hardships she's endured due to this pressure.
But after she announced the new man in her life, fans are seriously worried about her wellbeing. Keep scrolling to learn more...
Demi Lovato is a well known American singer.
via: Getty ImagesLovato, who is twenty-seven-years-old, is best known for singles such as "Don't Forget", "Here We Go Again", and "Tell Me You Love Me."
Lovato has been open about her struggles with mental health...
via: Getty ImagesAnd just as any normal person can relate, she has suffered with self-esteem issues and depression for a long time.
Remember when she posted about how insecure she was about her "beach body?"
via: Getty ImagesYou'd never know by her carefree smile and beach-living that she's constantly battling her own insecurity. "So, I’m insecure about my legs in this picture but I’m posting it because I look so happy and this year I’ve decided I’m letting go of my perfectionism and embracing freedom from self-criticism," Lovato wrote.
We can't imagine the pressure that comes with being famous and constantly in the public eye.
via: Getty Images"Learning to love my body the way it is is challenging but life-changing," Lovato continued. "Giving up my eating disorder has been the most challenging journey of my life but I work every day towards solid recovery even if I mess up sometimes."
Lovato is an inspiration to so many people and her touching words highlight that fact.
via: Getty Images"Today I’m feeling strong. You all can do it too. It IS possible. Thank you God for this new chapter in my life." You can truly see the joy radiating off of her in the photo.
This is not the first time that Lovato has shared her battle with self-love, recovery, and her eating disorder.YouTube documentary, Simply Complicated. The film followed her life and she spoke very candidly about her past drug addiction and battle with her weight and taking control of her life.
Lovato had previously been sober for nearly six years, though her battle with an eating disorder is ongoing.she said in the film, after she admitted to recently relapsing and purging. Her vulnerability and honesty are perhaps why fans feel so connected to Lovato. Anyone who has ever gone through darkness in their life can relate to Lovato's own journey.
Lovato explained that it's hard for her to not constantly think about her eating disorder.
via: Getty Images"I don’t want to give it the power that it controls my every thought, but it’s something that I’m constantly thinking about," she said. "Body image, what I wish I could be eating, what I wish I could be eating next, what I wish I didn’t eat, you know it’s just constant."
Lovato spoke about how she's envious of people who don't deal with thoughts like these."I get envious towards people who don’t struggle with an eating disorder because I think my life would be so much easier." Eating disorders are crippling for even the strongest of people. This is why Lovato is open about her own, so her fans know they are not alone.
Lovato explains that her toxic relationship with food started when she was a little girl.
via: Getty ImagesIn the documentary, Lovato says, "The food came first, when I was 8 years old and my little sister was born, a lot of the attention was taken off me and onto my little sister."
Emotional eating is common, and if not addressed can lead to unhealthy and dangerous habits.
via: Getty ImagesLovato explained that food often acted as a sort of "medicine" for her. "I had started working at that time and was under a lot of stress so I would bake cookies for my family, and I would eat all of them and nobody would have any to eat. That was my first memory of food being that medicine for me."
Her struggle with food often comes at highly emotional times in her life."When I was in a relationship, I went three years without purging and when we broke up that’s one of the first things I did," she says in the film. "The less I have to think about food, the easier it is to go about having a normal life and I don’t want to let anybody down so when I do have moments when I slip up, I feel very ashamed. What started the relapse was missing Wilmer. And when I feel lonely my heart feels hungry and I end up binging."
Even though she continues to struggle with it, Lovato is one strong human being.
via: Getty ImagesIt takes true bravery to be honest with the world, and Lovato continues to do so through her personal posts on social media.
A particular Instagram post hit home with many of her fans.
via: Getty ImagesLovato came clean with everyone when she admitted that she has secretly been editing photos of herself wearing bikinis before she uploads them.
The Disney star, who has seventy-three million followers on her Instagram had some home truths to share.
via: Getty ImagesShe started the post by writing: "This is my biggest fear."
Lovato revealed that the biggest downfall for her body confidence came down to one thing...
via: Getty ImagesCellulite. It's natural and we all have it. Whether it's on our legs, our ass cheeks, our bingo wings, doesn't matter. It's there.
But, as natural as it may be, society has made us fear it.Growing up as a female is difficult, primarily due to the unattainable beauty standards set by society. Countless nights are spent shaving stubble from legs, plucking eyebrows, and investing in make-up.
All of that work for what?
And that's exactly the message that Lovato was trying to promote with this post.
"Anyway, here’s me, raw, real. And I love me."
Demi's fan base is fiercely loyal...
via: Getty ImagesAnd they have spoken out yet again for Demi after her most recent Instagram post.
Demi posted a loved-up selfie with her new man on Instagram...
The pair appear to be very smitten with one another...
A lot of her fans don't seem to agree.
via: Getty ImagesMany believe that Lovato's involvement with the model will negatively affect the sobriety journey that she has been on since her nearly-fatal drug-overdose last year.
It is assumed that Wilson has used drugs in the past...
The fact that he has tattoos is also a concern...
The tattoos are completely irrelevant...
Another commenter said that Austin “smokes" in his photos on Instagram...
via: Getty ImagesAnd they went on to imply that Lovato had "downgraded" since her ex-boyfriend, Mike Johnson. "This can’t be the Christian and sober guy she’s looking for," they wrote. “She seemed better with Mike." At the end of the day, if this man is making her happy, we should all be happy for them. We can only hope that her journey of sobriety has given her the strength to resist temptation.