One of the things most women learn as they grow up is how to gently rebuff the unwanted advances of a man. You have to be firm, but not aggressive; polite, but not cowed. It’s a delicate balance. And all too often, some men choose not to take no for an answer and continue to insist you let them buy you a drink.
A writer named Amna Saleem recently found herself in this particularly difficult situation. It was at that moment that another woman stepped in and saved the day.
Ahhh, it’s a tale as old as time. Girl goes to bar. Boy sees girl.
Boy decides to hit on girl… then refuses to take no for an answer.
Like this woman, who tried to help her friend out and ended up being the new target.
Seriously?! How did that guy think this was a good option?
It’s obviously pretty bonkers that his sister had to teach him how to step up for women who are being preyed upon, but it’s great that there are men willing to learn the lesson anyway.
So take note! Next time you see someone in a situation that is clearly uncomfortable, remember these tips to try and help them escape.
The more women who band together against creepy dudes, the better.
And if you’re a guy, obviously, don’t be creepy.
It’s as easy as that.