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Woman Who Poked Holes in Partner’s Condoms to Get Pregnant is Jailed

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Woman Who Poked Holes in Partner’s Condoms to Get Pregnant is Jailed

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A German woman has been charged with s*xual assault after confessing to deliberately poking holes in her partner’s condoms.

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The thirty-nine-year-old woman was in a “friends with benefits” situation-ship with a forty-two-year-old when the incident occurred.

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Their relationship started out as casual at the beginning of 2021, but the woman began to develop feelings for her partner somewhere down the line.

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Sadly, the man involved didn’t feel the same and admitted that he wanted their arrangement to stay the way it was.

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Because of this, the woman sabotaged their contraception, by poking holes in her partner’s condoms as a way of getting back at him.

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Despite her efforts to get pregnant, she didn’t conceive, but after admitting to her partner over WhatsApp what she’d done, he decided to contact the police.

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According to the local paper, Neue Westfälische, the man pressed charges against her, and she later admitted to her coercive behavior.

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At first, the woman was facing r*pe charges, but that was later changed to a lesser charge of s*xual assault.

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The woman in question was then jailed, and given a sentence of 6 months.

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Many people have spoken out about the case online, and their opinions are certainly mixed.

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One Facebook user wrote: “What a confusing world we live in. If a man r*pes a woman or she has serious complications leading up to childbirth, she cannot terminate the pregnancy; now on the flip side she wants to get pregnant so she pokes holes in the condom – and she’s jailed?”

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While another commented: “Condoms aren’t just for prevention of pregnancy. They are also to prevent passing STDs. Life-altering STDs. As far as I’m concerned, this was assault. And she should be jailed. It’s about time the law catches up on both sides. Women can be abusers too.”

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The case came to court just months after “stealthing” was made illegal in California.

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This is the name given to the act of removing a partner’s condom without consent or lying about wearing a condom altogether.

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The bill was written by Cristina Garcia last year, Garcia said at the time of its passing: “This law is the first of its kind in the nation, but I urge other states to follow in California’s direction and make it clear that stealthing is not just immoral but illegal.”

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She claims that civil rights attorney, Alexandra Brodsky, inspired her to write the bill after reading her thoughts on the issue.

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After finding out about the new law, Brodsky spoke to NPR, she said: “The experience of realizing that your partner, your s*xual partner, has no concern for your autonomy, your individual dignity…

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“Your right to make decisions about who you have s*x with, when and how, that’s a terrible violation regardless of whether a physical injury occurs, regardless of whether a pregnancy occurs.”

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She continued: “Civil litigation keeps decision-making in the hands of survivors, which can be particularly important in the wake of s*xual violence, which is itself a denial of the victim’s right to make decisions about their lives.”

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What do you think of the new law?

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