Women turn to 6-6-6 dating rule to find ‘ideal’ partners.
A new trend is making waves in the dating world, and it’s called the “6-6-6 Rule.”
No, it’s not satanic, but it may conjure up dating demons of its own.
The 6-6-6 trifecta explained.
The 6-6-6 rule refers to a checklist some women use to filter men: 6 feet tall, 6-pack abs, and earning 6 figures.
The idea is simple—weed out potential dates by holding them to this elite standard.
But could this formula for the “perfect man” be backfiring on women looking for lasting love?
Why the 6-6-6 rule may not be working.
Despite its growing popularity, the 6-6-6 rule isn’t as perfect as it seems.
The truth is, most men don’t check all three boxes.
According to a recent podcast, this checklist excludes the majority of men—who may still be fantastic partners
So why do women continue to use it?
Appeal of the 6-6-6 rule exposed.
Dating apps like Tinder and Hinge make it easy to swipe based on a photo and a few stats.
This could explain why women resort to the 6-6-6 formula—it helps narrow down the endless options.
Experts warnings revealed.
But experts warn it could be limiting their chances at finding genuine connection.
Blaine Anderson, a dating coach, says while physical traits matter, personality is what makes or breaks a relationship.
There’s also mounting evidence that the more women insist on the 6-6-6 standard, the fewer real opportunities they may have.
A study by the dating app Flirtini revealed that 80% of women are open to lowering their standards to find a partner.
This suggests many women are feeling the pressure of sticking to lofty expectations—despite wanting love.
However, it’s not just the height, abs, and money that matter.
“Women want to date a man who can offer stability, but also someone who’s emotionally supportive,” Anderson explains
And while the 6-6-6 rule may help in filtering out profiles, it might also be filtering out great matches.
Psychologist warns women are limiting themselves.
Dr. Orion Taraban, a psychologist, says women using these rigid standards are only considering a very small group of men.
But let’s be real: physical attraction and finances are undeniably a factor.
That’s why experts recommend a balance.
Yes, keep some deal-breakers, but be flexible when it comes to traits that really count for long-term happiness.
Dating coach urges women to focus on deeper values.
Dating coach Amber Soletti suggests focusing on deeper issues like shared values instead.
“Sticking to the 6-6-6 rule alone can leave you single for longer than you’d like,” she adds.
Sure, a 6-figure salary sounds nice, but does he make you laugh?
A 6-foot man may turn heads, but will he be there for you when life gets tough?
Even some women admit the 6-6-6 rule is more of a fantasy than a requirement.
For many, the rule is more about initial attraction—but when they meet someone great, those standards often fly out the window.
Anderson emphasizes that if you truly want to find love, it’s time to rethink the 6-6-6 rule.
Ultimately, it’s not about compromising but about realizing that love is more than just a checklist.
The question remains: Will women give up the 6-6-6 rule for a shot at real love?